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No More Victim Cards: Owning Your Narrative

June 21, 2024 by Colin Gautrey

Comfort lies in the familiar, even if that means playing the victim. It’s a role many unwittingly adopt, assigning blame externally and relinquishing control. But every cloud has a silver lining, and every challenge hides an opportunity. When we shift from a passive to an active stance, we reclaim our narrative. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, we harness the energy of adversity, channeling it towards positive change. It’s a profound shift, one that takes us from being mere spectators in our lives to becoming the lead actors.
Own your story, and watch its trajectory change.

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