When you are facing up to dealing with difficult people, many thoughts and emotions crowd in. These tend to be negative - about them and the situation.
“How could they behave in such a way? They are so blinkered! So frustrating - they just ignore me. They shouldn’t treat people like that. They’re rude.”
And so it goes on. Time passes. The problem persists and the emotions become entrenched - automatic reactions.
Totally understandable. After all, you’re there trying to do a good job, help them even. Yet this is the way they treat you.
Trouble is, they may well be thinking and feeling similarly towards you. Sorry, yes, they may think you are a difficult person. Warped though that idea may seem, it could well be their reality. Read More